Wednesday, July 18, 2012
Thursday, June 7, 2012
Daughters and Dogs
I was looking in the mirror today and realised the shades of gray coming out in my beard,at my feet was our oldGolden retriever “Puppy” , her face turned a soft white with age ,laying down beside me , flapping her tail while laying down as only old dogs can do, as I tell her of my plans for today . I realised the love Puppy has brought into our lives at the same time I realised what she has taught the 3 M’s. Dogs can teach daughters a lot if we teach them to listen with thier heart , mind and soul.Daughters, as very little girls, need to internalize the deepest knowledge of loyalty, faith, honor, respect, and of course, love. Dads may attempt to teach these virtues, but Puppy lives it. Every day.
Puppy taught my daughters the wisdom of living inthe moment. Even the least important moment is important enough.
Hearing the family car pulling into the driveway is important , exciting and a reason to investigate even if it is just for a hug, kiss and hello.
Waiting at the door is important...awarm hug and hello do wonders for everyone.
Going for walk , strolling ....lolli-gagging is good for the soul , sometimes
Feeling the slurp of cool water is important.
Stretching legs and toes is important.
Feeling the rush of the wind from the car window is important.
Getting a great big hug is important.
Puppy taught my daughters the truth of what is not particularly important. Morning breath. A bad hair day. Gossip.
Puppy taught my daughters to run, play, jump, frolic. Dogs have a magical way of nudging even our teenaged daughters into some agreeable action.
Puppy taught my daughters the beauty of looking into big, round eyes. The confidence of gently bathing and brushing magnificent hair. The patience of training. And the respect of things that are living.
Puppy taught my daughters to listen to a creature who has nothing to say. To speak her heart to ears that absorb her every word. To fear not solitude.
Puppy taught my daughters to be silly. To pour out saved-up wishes. To love simply, yet completely. To take delight in this love.
Puppy is teaching my daughters about mortality. And immortality. Dogs let our daughters know that man alone contemplates his mortality… animals who are ready to go show no sign of doubt. Puppy is offering my daughters the greatest hope that we will always live in the memories of those we leave on this earth.
Puppy has taught my daughters that love often times needs no logic. The sweetest attraction is sometimes the strangest!
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Tuesday, May 8, 2012
Explaining History from an Islanders point of view
Living and growing up on a pirate island is amazing and challenging but with one daughter graduating from Middle school and her team being called the Buccaneers and my second Daughter being slightly banged up , we have had a chance to review many stories and dreams I told her as she was growing up ...one of them was my belief that sailors are blessed by God , loved by Jesus and smiled upon by the angels.
With Her quick mind and sharper wit she layed out a trap for me to fall into by mentioning that Pirates are also sailors ,but being ...older no more experienced I asked her to close her eyes and listen to my story , my version of history and my thoughts on Pirates .....
Just Imagine one night going out with your buddies , you are having dinner , laughing,
talking , singing songs and drinking a bit ,just enjoying your life with your
friends ,bragging about your girlfriend and your dreams ….and then someone
slips you a mickey and off to sleep you
go……Imagine the heart ache when you wake up on a merchant ship… a big huge boat….. a ocean going vessal ……not
a row boat but a functioning working 7
days a week 24 hours a day boat crammed with
all sorts of stuff , other people as confused as you and
a select group of people you don’t know …..This select group of people won’t let you off the boat or take you back
home…..They demand you to work or be Flogged…demand you to do unnatural things like climbing ropes on a
swinging and swaying mast or be flogged…..They
tell you ,you will be home in 2 to 5
years …..if you live …..They demand
absolute obedience and use terms and words you have never heard before nor
fully understand ….They give you strange
and awful food , They give you limited sleeping arrangements and offer you
no recourse but to sign papers saying you will work for food and maybe a small
monthly allotment if you survive
and get home .You have been just been “IMPRESSED”.
With Her quick mind and sharper wit she layed out a trap for me to fall into by mentioning that Pirates are also sailors ,but being ...older no more experienced I asked her to close her eyes and listen to my story , my version of history and my thoughts on Pirates .....
Imagine the dispare for these young men ,So you sign these papers
pledging loyalty ,fidelity and your life to these unknown select group
of people.You slowly and unwillingly learn the boat and the
ways of a sailor. [England as well as many other nations in the late 1700’s and
early 1800’s had 45 % of its sailors as sign ons ie: experienced sailors with
no land based homes or families {formally impressed sailors }, 27% were
impressed sailors ie as mentioned above …and now for the kicker 28% were
volunteers…{that means they were impressed but told they would get a bonus if they signed the papers quickly with
no problems often at the point of a knife ..these guys were very "impressed "with thier recruiters ….lol….}.Slowly
you begin to master several skills and forge bonds with others like yourself
..plucked also from thier mother’s breasts ….by the Select few
and also beaten if they don’t do as the select few say….these bonds forged with strangers grow stronger
daily by working side by side with your new also “Impressed “friends .You have
created a good impression not to be flogged.
Late at night , the older sailors tell you stories about how
they have no home to go back too , families lost or scattered and about life on the high seas and the
different places they have been. In their eyes you still see a glimmer sadness but a flicker of pride
or hope if only given the chance , would they change the course of their lives………..They also whisper stories of men unlike
them … free to choose their lives , their own boats , free to choose their own
captains , master at arms , Quatermaster ,and First mate and if these elected officers “screw up” they
get voted out of the picture and off the boat …..They vote on where to go , who
to see and what to do …they get real profit sharing ….they have real vested
interested in the success of the voyage ….they get workmans comp [if they get
hurt they get a pay out ]…..free health care …… free dental…life insurance pay out for thier wives .They develop their
own set of rules for each trip for all to abide by …..they have formed a loose
confederacy or union of men or even better a
breathen of friends …….real
democracy in action .
One day while sailing the select few yell put more sail on….. and keep looking
behind them at the two or three small ships behind them . Slowly the smaller
boats get closer and closer and the select few get more and
more nervious …..they understand what is happening and what will happen….The
loan sharks[the guys from Holland who call themselves the East India trading company[very
similar to Italian import/export companies
] or the boys at Lloyds bar and
grill in London who run the insurance {imagine someone insuring cargo for
amounts of currency that are currently unknown , the total quanity of product unknown ,the total quality of product is unknown and the delivery is to be determined at a later date weather permitting if the
person handling the money lives long enough} ] Both of those groups loaned the select
few the money for this voyage……and those guys will not forgive them if they loose the cargo [the VIG on a ship
and cargo was fantastic 1000% or more ]and they” the loan sharks “will go after
the select fews families ….The select few don’t want to die, get hurt or mained ….ie: better
to save the ship or partial cargo and plan on a future voyage …then to die and loose it all .
As the small boats come along side ,weapons are being passed
out to you and your friends to defend the select fews ship…..hummm…..fight
for select few you don’t know or like , for a cargo that means nothing to you
,possibly get hurt for someone who beats you ,possibly die for someone who kidnapped
you …hummm …… ……..as the smaller boats
come along side they unfurl the skull and cross bones
…stating “stand and deliver ,no
mercy no quarter “ meaning stop the boat now and we the free democratic sailors on the
smaller ships will give you directions home or to the nearest port check your supplies as you may
be lost wondering about in a big ocean and in return we will help you
settle your cargo ie lighten your load so you can get home faster
to see your loved ones and this cargo you have given us for directions and safe passage , we will sell
it for you locally to save you time ,
shipping costs and to releave you of the huge capital gains
and import tax burden that will be placed upon you , on a side note : you get to live another day [also remember the
free democratic sailors don’t want to
get hurt , die or sustain injury either]
…it is a win win solution
for everyone ……. or you the select few
can fire a shot and the free democratic
sailors trying to assit you and offer you help out on the big ocean will put
you all to the sword because you have been impolite by not stopping and saying hello ,you have been mean by
making the free democratic sailors sweat in the heat and not waving back or saying hello , you have thrown a temper tantrum by firing a shot
perhaps and given those poor democraticly elected sailors a headache by the noise.
Hopefully you will stop ...While cargo is being transferred to the smaller boats
everyone is freely given the option of listening to the recruiters sales pitch for
the Christian non demoninational democraticsea faring coalition of men who promise you …..
better working hours , better
food ,workmans comp and profit sharing ….. or remaining with the Select Fews Boat and
maybe getting paid [remember the cargo just left with the Christian brotherhood
of democratic seafarers and your hopes
of collecting a small daily wage after they [the select few]deducted
out for loss of cargo , your food bill ,clothes ,blankets , gloves
,and rain gear are now gone , you are now officially qualified as a debtor and
liable to be thrown into debtors prison
upon return home or forced to work this debt off.]
Tough choices for these young men torn from their mothers
bossum …hmmmm…..freedom ,democracy and profit sharing …………..or………….. possible beatings , debtors
prison and no guarrentee of getting paid …..ummmmm!!!!!!! what would you do???
Start a revolution [as we did in Texas ], establish your own Country [as we did in Texas ], develope your own system of Seafaring managment for Global politics [as we did in Texas and on Galveston island ]
Start a revolution [as we did in Texas ], establish your own Country [as we did in Texas ], develope your own system of Seafaring managment for Global politics [as we did in Texas and on Galveston island ]
Nest week : pleasure boating, Jesus and pirates !
Tuesday, April 17, 2012
Our commericial for Mexico [edited english version]
Here is a version of our commericial for Mexico with English script for non spanish speakers
http://youtu.be/y37UnHktnBY
Tuesday, April 10, 2012
Tuesday, March 27, 2012
Accepted , rejected and objective
Accepted ,
rejected and objective
My
youngest Maddy daughter was filling out her application for O’Connell Prep School ,and among all the items
listed for information gathering and questions asked were the following
questions which gave pause for thought ,not wanting to repeat the traditional
items of sports , school activities and groups and clubs it provided a chance
for her and myself to reflect on ourselves as we really saw ourselves [using
additional sheets paper if required ].So we each filled out our own versions of
form together .Below are several points that caused us to both rethink in a nontraditional way thoughts and our views of ourselves.
Describe yourself : [Not wanting her to
do the …I am a good softball player and team leader which was already listed
under the sports line , I thought about myself and came up with the following
that fits in the 8 lines of space available]
I
am unapproachably friendly. I am deliriously sane. I am normally crazy. I am
rapturously unhappy. I am joyously angst-ridden. I am trendily outdated. I am
consciously carefree. I am drunkenly devoted to sobriety. No. I am soberly
committed to drunkenness. I am educated, but not
snooty; a home-lover, but not a home-body. I am funny, but not a comedienne. I am
religious, but not pious. I am set in my ways, but not set in concrete. I am confident,
but not obnoxious. I am a bit romantic, but not sappy. I am smart, but not smart-alecky.
I am witty, but not at wit's end. I am reliable;
but not predictable.
What
are your assets and liabilities? [
Again not wanting her to list team
leader , captain of teams etc, but wanting her
to understand who she really is and give a insight into who her father is , I came up with the following ]
I’m very creative both intellectually and
artistically, but can't spell and often use inappropriate, but similarly
sounding words to complete thoughts that might otherwise be profound.
What do you enjoy doing? [Again not
wanting to list activites that are already described from the many pages in the form with addition information
listed on extra pages ,I looked for an answer that fits in the 4 lines provided
on the application]
I Love to laugh all the time, I enjoy laughing at the absurd, I enjoy laughing at my thoughts sparked by something completely unrelated, I enjoy laugh at texts that, sent to someone with a shadier disposition, might not be so funny, and I laugh at myself for laughing, among other things.
I Love to laugh all the time, I enjoy laughing at the absurd, I enjoy laughing at my thoughts sparked by something completely unrelated, I enjoy laugh at texts that, sent to someone with a shadier disposition, might not be so funny, and I laugh at myself for laughing, among other things.
After smiling and reviewing her answers as
compared to mine , we together sign, folded and placed a stamp and mailed out
the application [s]…….Did I ever tell you I am also very forgetfull , I tend to forget minor details until I don't,
and then I forget to forget them again. I
also enjoy hearing stories again for the first time….and this story will be
told over and over again in my house thru
the years as the time …..my youngest M got
accepted in O’Connell Prep school and her father didn’t …..LOL…..you see when I
sealed the envelope I enclosed both her copy and my copy of the application we
were filling out….30 some years after
being accepted , graduating and now being rejected ,I can’t help but smile and
think life is still good on my island
and at www.amigomovil.net .
Congratulations to my eldest Daughter and to all seniors from the STEM program at Ball High Prep academy and thanks to Dr Ricks for a job well done . Molly good luck in the future and in farmacy or is
it Pharmacy [ I don’t know I forget] school [ you already knew I couldn’t spell…lol…
]
Monday, March 19, 2012
Thoughts on Creativity
Creativity By Mike Nixon
Can creativity be
created? I personally find that
creativity is a fickle mistress. When
moments of creativity hit, they can be motivating and uplifting. In the sometimes long droughts between truly
inspired thought, it seems that there has never been an original idea. But, can innovation and ingenuity bedeveloped to the point that they are “on call” when the need arises?
Merriam
-Webster describes creativity as “the skill and imagination to create new
things”. Skill – I like that – a skill
is something that can be learned and developed.
But the second part of this definition is more problematic. Imagination is that spark of genius that we
are born with, something innately within us that singularly defines us and
brands us as unique in this world.
While this
psuedo-definition of imagination may be somewhat true, on further thought, it
may be incomplete at best. I wonder that
skill and imagination are not so easily divorced as would appear on the
surface. Malcomb Gladwell is one of my favourite
authors. I believe he would take a
different perspective on this topic. In
his books, Blink and again, peripherally, in Outliers, Mr. Gladwell would have
us look at common (and not so common) occurrences differently. Is our intuition (Blink) and our “overnight
success” (Outliers) a God-given gift or talent bestowed at birth or are they
more closely related to proficiency that can be developed? It think the latter.
Let me give an
example. My wife's birthday was
approaching. As I get older, I am no
longer satisfied buying the perfunctory flowers, perfume or other worn-out
cliches of a present. I wanted something
creative to show my appreciation of her value in my life. I wanted to celebrate the time that Anne and
I fell in love (I know, sappy, but
true.) In essence, I wanted to be
creative. But, what to buy or build or
do? One night, I noticed that when she
bored of my excessive automotive how-to's and Science Channel documentaries,
she retreated to her laptop and a quick game of Classic Ms. Pac Man. You see, when we were first dating, we would
often spend time by frequenting that late 70's hangout – the Video Arcade.
So the seminal
idea was born. I would find a vintage
Pac Man arcade game and present it to her as a present. But – you know what? - those things are big. Where is it going to fit into our living room
without it looking out of place like a fraternity dorm room. (I say that because I had an Asteroids Arcade
in my room...) No, that definitely
wouldn't work. Maybe the “cocktail
table” version of the arcade was a better solution. Next revelation – those things are expensive.
Maybe I can build
one... There are myriad options and
examples on the internet these days. I
secured plans and spent hours looking at examples. I finally determined that I would not have
the time/space/perseverance to complete this task. But, the idea would not go away. The cocktail table was a vast improvement but
would still be covered by a tablecloth in the corner of the living room. This would prevent the occasional spontaneous
play that I wanted to encourage.
Something different would have to be “created”. I wanted a classic arcade play but in a
fixture that was on display for the world to see (I'm dramatic that way.) I wanted it to be art.
Now, you see, one
thing that I am not is an artist. I am
an engineer through and through. I act
like an engineer. I talk like an
engineer. And, most importantly, I think
like an engineer. When I realized it was
art that was the goal, I knew I was not the right man for the job. So I turned to a real artist, John V. Weber. Anne has wanted one of John's pieces in our
home for some time. So I “commissioned”
John to build the artwork that would hold my engineering. You see I have a secret weapon – John is also
my daughter's father-in-law. So art with
a purpose. And this is the metaphor for
which I was searching.
So the terms, art
and skill are very much relative. John's
art has a skill that is unsurpassed.
Like a pianist or a singer, his art is practised each day until it is
honed to a fine edge. Similarly, my
skill has a certain level of artistic quality – the layout of wire, the
location of the controls and the operation of the mechanics. All developed from the repetitive use and
tutelage of engineers more practised than myself.
So, creativity has
come to mean the development of ideas and practices to a level that seems
natural and spontaneous. What Mr.
Gladwell would describe as conforming to the “10,000 hour rule”. Some, it seems, get this right and call it
“focus”. Others, fail miserably with
obvious me-too products incorporating little thought or effort. I like to believe that we can all insert some
creativity into our world based on our own 10,000 hours of experience. It is with this insight and challenge that we
approach the development of all of our projects at Amigo Movil.Tuesday, March 13, 2012
“Children begin by loving their Father ; as they grow older they judge him ; and sometimes, they forgive him ”
Over the weekend , I relaxed from work had a chance to spend time with my 18 yr old daughter . Ok I trapped her ,[ I
asked her if she wanted to go to the Boat and hang out for a bit ]once I threw
off the dock lines , and cleared into the Galveston Ship channel , there was no going back {hehehehe I still cant believe she fell for it }
With rumble of the old diesel chugging [and smoking away] , she quickly turned down the Ships radio and
turned up the FM radio , but not to some crazy Houston station playing music
without acoustic guitars but she tuned into my Texas Country station bringing a
smile to my face as the sweet sound of the Zack Brown Band came flowing out of
the Cabin. Smiling she came into the cockpit and brought up several cushions to
sit on and placed them around the cockpit area.
For 10 minutes or so , we experienced a calm easy silence ,
the kind that comes from just marveling at the beauty of our island home when
viewed from the water , the stillness
almost placidness of the peacefull waters and the expanse of Gods arms in the
form of clouds stretching across the horizon , just stearing the boat thru the
markers with simple nods to each other reflecting on the many adventures she ,
her sisters, her friends and I have shared on these waters .
Finally she spoke to reveal the dangers of a oyster bed near
by ,smiling I adjusted course into a deeper part of the channel [thinking she
remembers running on this bed as a young
child looking for pearls ]
Then she spoke of not missing the marker red 12 and turning
slightly to starboard ,smiling I again made the course adjustments remembering
the time she drifted by there on a floating dock loaded with her friends riding
the currents with no motor thru the ship channel as only children blessed by
Angels can do ,get way with and endure.
Glancing by the airport she commented on the dangers of the
shifting sand bars , oyster reefs and false currents near there , Again smiling
I adjusted course and thought of her running jet skis thru there and hanging
out on the sandbar during the summer months bbq’ing , water skiing and listening
to the concert sounds coming from MoodyGardens .
Coming about , I handed the wheel over to her and moved forward to the bow to make some
adjustments on the standing rigging,
After several minutes glancing back I
saw her comfortably sitting on the Captains peak arms stretched across the railing , shoes off , feet and toes
locked on and around the wheel steering
by feel of the waves and wind , head
held high and slightly tilted into the evening breeze…….Completely at ease
,completely self assured and confident in her own knowledge , ability and
course she was setting.
It was a moment of pride to watch her …to see what she has
become ….and at the same time bittersweet …. with the realization , that she
will be gone in several months of to chart her own course thru Pharmacy school and life , requiring or needing very little direction
or Fatherly intervention.{but secretly
wishing and hoping she will always come back to ask her Pops opinion}
Settling back in the cockpit , our conversation drifted
towards more immediate subjects such as her
sisters , friends , plans for the summer and of course the fatherly question of
….Hey Little bear , what do you feel your role is within yourself and our family ?
Responding as her eyes constantly scanned the horizon and
then the near closer potential problems to navigation she said “ To become the best person I am able
too ….and to lead ,challenge and protect my sisters …..and to listen and
heed the advice from you”
Smiling at each other , we watched the sunset set on the
water and I thought to myself … I am glad the argueing phase of our
relationship may be coming to an end …I am extremely proud of her and her choices in life ..perhaps she is ready to chart her own course ...If she navigates life as well as she handles the Lost soul thru these waters ....She will be just fine ......
we will still have a few rocky patches but the girls and I are like a
piece of fudge…. a little nutty….. but on the whole …full , rich and sweet ….alot
like life which should be savored and devoured
, relishing both emotions at the same time …..........
life is pretty good with the 3 M’s , on
my island and at www.amigomovil.net
Friday, March 2, 2012
Viva La Tejas , Forever texas
It's Texas Independence Day! Y'all wear your boots.
176 years ago fifty-nine elegates to the Convention of 1836 at Washington-on-the Brazos sign the Texas Declaration of Independence without debate. Authored primarily by George Childress, it charges that the Mexican government has become a military dictatorship, ceasing to protect the lives, liberty and property of her people, and declares Texas to be an independent republic.
In San Antonio the Alamo defenders endure another day of shelling as Santa Anna continues to close the noose around the little fort. They only have days to live and will die unaware that independence has been declared......www.amigomovil.net ......Viva La Tejas !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Wednesday, February 29, 2012
Talking thru Closed doors
When dealing with the 3 M's I will admitt at times I am totally lost , using My finely honed[Yeah right ] , experienced driven [ unsuccessful to date ]and crafted [I read Dr. Spock]parenting skills , They still out flank me at times and leave me speachless [ I pity thier future husbands ].I am seeking a little advice on how to a get Teenage girls to clean up after themselves , I have approx 1400 readers who follow crazy thoughts written in this blog....... any ideas , thoughts or comments ????
I mean they are NHS members , Honor roll , Stem program , top 10 % or better in thier class , they each have 4 to 7 activities/ clubs per year they are invloved in but I cant get them to pick up after themselves or perhaps.....naw couldnt be ..... this is wild thought .....they may just love THE SOUND OF MY FATHERLY VOICE ......naw couldnt be that I am sure .......any ideas?
As my father would say “When you can’t change the direction of the wind — adjust your sails.”
Sit back and smile and think Life is still great on my island at www.amigomovil.net
I mean they are NHS members , Honor roll , Stem program , top 10 % or better in thier class , they each have 4 to 7 activities/ clubs per year they are invloved in but I cant get them to pick up after themselves or perhaps.....naw couldnt be ..... this is wild thought .....they may just love THE SOUND OF MY FATHERLY VOICE ......naw couldnt be that I am sure .......any ideas?
As my father would say “When you can’t change the direction of the wind — adjust your sails.”
Sit back and smile and think Life is still great on my island at www.amigomovil.net
Thursday, February 23, 2012
Monday, February 20, 2012
the Key to running your Household " let anarchy rule"
Ok , the 3 M’s definitely have a busy schedule with School ,
activities , sports and goofing off ,which makes my schedule even busier [because it is my
schedule times 3 completely unorganized schedules ]
So in the house we have to try to maintain some type of order with the constant state of kaos that teenage girls seem to thrive in. I
have found that I have to stop at the food store or some other type of store on
a daily basis as a result of my inability to get the 3 M’s all walking the same
step. [lots of luck on that one as NP says ]
I have tried taking them shopping with me as a family unit , ie food shopping ,
to the drug store , Walmart/Target , and Home depot ,but I found I spend twice as much money if they “come along to
help me” as they seem to purchase a larger than necessary supply of “must have or I will die designer household essentials” ie…. Mrs Vick’s potato chips ….? [what is wrong with Pringles or
Lays ? ] …..acai ,pok-a-berry juice cocktail ,100% natural from hand selected concentrate berry juice
with broccoli and spinach blend made in
Texas …[I am still an ocean spray cranberry juice guy, I didn’t know
cranberries were healthy in the 70’s , I just liked the name “Ocean Spray “ and
they have weekly coupons ] …..The Original La Rosa “real Tex/Mex style” Salsa and/or Con Quesso spicy dip made in Texas [ Me I buy what ever
is on sale at 1/3 the price of the designer sauces ]….and Small white packages
of Cookies that carry europeon names of
cities or countries or Ethic regions [ Me it is Chips Ahoy and Oreo’s ]
So in order to encourage stability and unity I started a “to buy “ list [again] and placed it on the re frig door [ again] but I changed the name to [thinking basic and easy would
get the point across]:
“If we are out of it , Write to down
and I will get it in two days “
So the next morning I get up and glance at “ the list “
thinking miricales are happening and I have achieve a brief respite from
constant anarchy , I grab my glasses and read the first entry
“Pop , you may be Goofy ,corny and old fashioned but your are not out
of it , BTW give yourself more credit , it never takes you two days to get anything
,a day maybe but never two , you are
pretty smart at times , love you“
I just turned around to watch the sunrise on the gulf, smile , dunk my oreo in my milk and think life
is ok on my island and at www.amigomovil.net
Wednesday, February 15, 2012
Tuesday, February 14, 2012
Verbal Picasso Art forms and Daughters
As you know this week is both St Valentine’s day and preparation
for the Mardi Gras parades , Fat Tuesday and ash Wednesday here on the Island .
I was trying to develop some type of story but decided just to wait until after
this weekend’s mis-adventures, but I made a list of the words of wisdom or wit
that have rolled out of my mouth over the past couple of days to the 3M’s [ I
still can’t believe the garbage that comes out all mixed up somewhat like a verbal Picasso art form]
On yourself image:
In order to be someone, you must first be yourself.
Alter your attitude and you can alter your life.
Always laugh when you can. It is cheaper than medicine…
On your career
choices:
We make a living by what we get, we make a life by what we
give
On relationships [fathers are excluded from this one]:
Men are like roses , watch out for all of the pricks
On people you may encounter or work with:
Half of the people in the world are below average.
On stumbling blocks
to happiness:
The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the
less capable you are of loving in the present
Always forgive your enemies; nothing annoys them so much.
A positive attitude may not solve all of your problems but
it will annoy enough people to make it worth the effort.
On love:
The sound of a kiss is not as loud as a cannon but its echo
last a lot longer
As I am finishing this I am literally chuckling to myself life is too good with the 3 M’s , on my island
and at www.amigomovil.net
Monday, February 13, 2012
Thursday, February 9, 2012
Wednesday, February 8, 2012
"Father's Be Good to Your Daughters , daughters will love like you do "
Each day as I watch my 3M's I am struck with the same thoughts that I must instill or teach my daughters daily to counteract the garbage from Tv , the internet , school and thier friends
Here is my list :[seriously tell me what you think of it amigomoviltx@gmail.com]
1]Fathers are forever , I will always be there beside her , with her and for her to depend upon.A lighthouse.
2]She is beautiful just the way she is .Her Natural attractiviness is all she will ever need .Reaffrim this daily
3] She is enough and capable of anything.She has all the intelligence ,confidence and capability to accomplish anything.
4]Practice saying NO! along the way girlfriends and boyfriends will place her in a position where she may make poor choices but she must say no !!! Practice makes perfect !!!
5]Believe in RIGHT and WRONG , she will need moral clarity in the future ,teach what is ethical and right so she has a measure to live by.
6]Humility , Yes I want them to have confidience and independance but I also want them to respect others and treat them with diginity .[ie people in positions of authority , elders and me]
7]Maintain a healthy lifestyle with laughter , song and good food.They must have a heathly view of thier diet , lifestyle and excerise habits.Go surfing , eat mangos and laugh at the absurd.
8]Men should treat her with gentliness and respect , she should exspect and refuse anything less.
9]Modesty , it is more attractive to create a modest and authentic look , [revealing looks are crying for attention] there are boundries that are acceptable and these are my boundries.Deal with it and live with it.
10]Relationships and Family matter most , most of her joy and fullfillment will come from the relationships she builds , so she must choose and act wisely.Wait and catch the right wave.
11] Stay away from drugs and dont drink too much , Alcohol may be harmfull and impairs judgement, the effects of abusive before she is an adult is painful.
12] I will always defend her ,if someone wrongs her in any way I will always defend her and champion her cause ,she need never look elsewhere for protection.
13]Managing money , thrift and frugility are virtues to be held dear.
14]Honesty and Integrity , always maintain these qualities.
15]Patience , wait to have sex, wait for the right man ,wait so you can finish college , wait so you can travel ,dont rush into things ,the right wave will come.
16]Keep things Simple , the simplier the solution the more eloquent.
17]Believe and trust in the power of prayer , you are blessed and highly favored
18]We have Enough , dont fall victom to consumerism, give generously of yourself
19]Appreciate Nature , come with your Pop and go surfing or watch the sunset , marvel in the glory of nature and God
20]Be persistent ,Perseverance is a fine attribute to have and hold,catch the right wave
21]Be practical and pragmatic , solve all problems is a logical way , solve the problems for others they will love you for it
22]Dont get pushed around , you have authority over your life , take control , you are your own best hero !
23]Ask what can I do about it? Be practical and follow the prayer of St Francis [ my english Teacher had me recite it daily ,I thank her for that to this day] , it will reduce your stress and lead to a longer life
24]My love is unconditional , I will always, always , always love you , I may not agree with your choices But I will always love you and you must understand the seperation between these two concepts
Finally .....My Daughters Matter and the job of being a Father in todays society is difficult ,the opposition is fierce and unrelenting , I literally draw a line in the sand on my island daily , I will not give up on you ,I will be an example for you to be proud of now and in the future , our society will not claim you as a victim , I will ensure you are strong ,secure , proud and ready for tomorrow,I love you......thank you girls for teaching me as much if not more than I have taught you over the years.
www.amigomovil.net
Here is my list :[seriously tell me what you think of it amigomoviltx@gmail.com]
1]Fathers are forever , I will always be there beside her , with her and for her to depend upon.A lighthouse.
2]She is beautiful just the way she is .Her Natural attractiviness is all she will ever need .Reaffrim this daily
3] She is enough and capable of anything.She has all the intelligence ,confidence and capability to accomplish anything.
4]Practice saying NO! along the way girlfriends and boyfriends will place her in a position where she may make poor choices but she must say no !!! Practice makes perfect !!!
5]Believe in RIGHT and WRONG , she will need moral clarity in the future ,teach what is ethical and right so she has a measure to live by.
6]Humility , Yes I want them to have confidience and independance but I also want them to respect others and treat them with diginity .[ie people in positions of authority , elders and me]
7]Maintain a healthy lifestyle with laughter , song and good food.They must have a heathly view of thier diet , lifestyle and excerise habits.Go surfing , eat mangos and laugh at the absurd.
8]Men should treat her with gentliness and respect , she should exspect and refuse anything less.
9]Modesty , it is more attractive to create a modest and authentic look , [revealing looks are crying for attention] there are boundries that are acceptable and these are my boundries.Deal with it and live with it.
10]Relationships and Family matter most , most of her joy and fullfillment will come from the relationships she builds , so she must choose and act wisely.Wait and catch the right wave.
11] Stay away from drugs and dont drink too much , Alcohol may be harmfull and impairs judgement, the effects of abusive before she is an adult is painful.
12] I will always defend her ,if someone wrongs her in any way I will always defend her and champion her cause ,she need never look elsewhere for protection.
13]Managing money , thrift and frugility are virtues to be held dear.
14]Honesty and Integrity , always maintain these qualities.
15]Patience , wait to have sex, wait for the right man ,wait so you can finish college , wait so you can travel ,dont rush into things ,the right wave will come.
16]Keep things Simple , the simplier the solution the more eloquent.
17]Believe and trust in the power of prayer , you are blessed and highly favored
18]We have Enough , dont fall victom to consumerism, give generously of yourself
19]Appreciate Nature , come with your Pop and go surfing or watch the sunset , marvel in the glory of nature and God
20]Be persistent ,Perseverance is a fine attribute to have and hold,catch the right wave
21]Be practical and pragmatic , solve all problems is a logical way , solve the problems for others they will love you for it
22]Dont get pushed around , you have authority over your life , take control , you are your own best hero !
23]Ask what can I do about it? Be practical and follow the prayer of St Francis [ my english Teacher had me recite it daily ,I thank her for that to this day] , it will reduce your stress and lead to a longer life
24]My love is unconditional , I will always, always , always love you , I may not agree with your choices But I will always love you and you must understand the seperation between these two concepts
Finally .....My Daughters Matter and the job of being a Father in todays society is difficult ,the opposition is fierce and unrelenting , I literally draw a line in the sand on my island daily , I will not give up on you ,I will be an example for you to be proud of now and in the future , our society will not claim you as a victim , I will ensure you are strong ,secure , proud and ready for tomorrow,I love you......thank you girls for teaching me as much if not more than I have taught you over the years.
www.amigomovil.net
Friday, February 3, 2012
Friday, January 27, 2012
I am Tired
I was sent this the other day and asked to pass it on , this was our dinner conversation last night with the 3 M's it was written by Bill Cosby...
Bill Cosby: "I'm 76 and Tired"
"I'm 76 and I'm Tired"
I'm 76. Except for brief period in the 50's when I was doing my National
Service, I've worked hard since I was 17. Except for some some serious
health challenges, I put in 50-hour weeks, and didn't call in sick in nearly
40 years. I made a reasonable salary, but I didn't inherit my job or my
income, and I worked to get where I am. Given the economy, it looks as
though retirement was a bad idea, and I'm tired. Very tired.
I'm tired of being told that I have to "spread the wealth" to people who
don't have my work ethic. I'm tired of being told the government will take
the money I earned, by force if necessary, and give it to people too lazy
to earn it.
I'm tired of being told that Islam is a "Religion of Peace," when every day I
can read dozens of stories of Muslim men killing their sisters, wives and
daughters for their family "honor"; of Muslims rioting over some slight
offense; of Muslims murdering Christian and Jews because they aren't
"believers"; of Muslims burning schools for girls; of Muslims stoning
teenage rape victims to death for "adultery"; of Muslims mutilating the
genitals of little girls; all in the name of Allah, because the Qur'an and
Shari'a law tells them to.
I'm tired of being told that out of "tolerance for other cultures" we must let
Saudi Arabia and other Arab countries use our oil money to fund mosques
and madrassa Islamic schools to preach hate in Australia , New Zealand ,
UK, America and Canada , while no one from these countries are allowed to
fund a church, synagogue or religious school in Saudi Arabia or any other
Arab country to teach love and tolerance..
I'm tired of being told I must lower my living standard to fight global
warming, which no one is allowed to debate.
I'm tired of being told that drug addicts have a disease, and I must help
support and treat them, and pay for the damage they do. Did a giant germ
rush out of a dark alley, grab them, and stuff white powder up their noses
or stick a needle in their arm while they tried to fight it off?
I'm tired of hearing wealthy athletes, entertainers and politicians of all
parties talking about innocent mistakes, stupid mistakes or youthful
mistakes, when we all know they think their only mistake was getting
caught. I'm tired of people with a sense of entitlement, rich or poor.
I'm really tired of people who don't take responsibility for their lives and
actions. I'm tired of hearing them blame the government, or discrimination
or big-whatever for their problems.
I'm also tired and fed up with seeing young men and women in their teens and
early 20's be-deck them selves in tattoos and face studs, thereby making
themselves un-employable and claiming money from the Government.
Yes, I'm damn tired. But I'm also glad to be 76.. Because, mostly, I'm not
going to have to see the world these people are making. I'm just sorry for
my granddaughter and her children. Thank God I'm on the way out and not
on the way in.
There is no way this will be widely publicized, unless each of us
sends it on!
This is your chance to make a difference.
" I'm 76 and I'm tired. If you don't forward this you
are part of the problem".
Thanks from all at www.amigomovil.net , www.youtube.com/user/amigomoviltx
Bill Cosby: "I'm 76 and Tired"
"I'm 76 and I'm Tired"
I'm 76. Except for brief period in the 50's when I was doing my National
Service, I've worked hard since I was 17. Except for some some serious
health challenges, I put in 50-hour weeks, and didn't call in sick in nearly
40 years. I made a reasonable salary, but I didn't inherit my job or my
income, and I worked to get where I am. Given the economy, it looks asthough retirement was a bad idea, and I'm tired. Very tired.
I'm tired of being told that I have to "spread the wealth" to people who
don't have my work ethic. I'm tired of being told the government will take
the money I earned, by force if necessary, and give it to people too lazy
to earn it.
I'm tired of being told that Islam is a "Religion of Peace," when every day I
can read dozens of stories of Muslim men killing their sisters, wives and
daughters for their family "honor"; of Muslims rioting over some slight
offense; of Muslims murdering Christian and Jews because they aren't
"believers"; of Muslims burning schools for girls; of Muslims stoning
teenage rape victims to death for "adultery"; of Muslims mutilating the
genitals of little girls; all in the name of Allah, because the Qur'an and
Shari'a law tells them to.
I'm tired of being told that out of "tolerance for other cultures" we must let
Saudi Arabia and other Arab countries use our oil money to fund mosques
and madrassa Islamic schools to preach hate in Australia , New Zealand ,
UK, America and Canada , while no one from these countries are allowed to
fund a church, synagogue or religious school in Saudi Arabia or any other
Arab country to teach love and tolerance..
I'm tired of being told I must lower my living standard to fight global
warming, which no one is allowed to debate.
I'm tired of being told that drug addicts have a disease, and I must help
support and treat them, and pay for the damage they do. Did a giant germ
rush out of a dark alley, grab them, and stuff white powder up their noses
or stick a needle in their arm while they tried to fight it off?
I'm tired of hearing wealthy athletes, entertainers and politicians of all
parties talking about innocent mistakes, stupid mistakes or youthful
mistakes, when we all know they think their only mistake was getting
caught. I'm tired of people with a sense of entitlement, rich or poor.
I'm really tired of people who don't take responsibility for their lives and
actions. I'm tired of hearing them blame the government, or discrimination
or big-whatever for their problems.
I'm also tired and fed up with seeing young men and women in their teens and
early 20's be-deck them selves in tattoos and face studs, thereby making
themselves un-employable and claiming money from the Government.
Yes, I'm damn tired. But I'm also glad to be 76.. Because, mostly, I'm not
going to have to see the world these people are making. I'm just sorry for
my granddaughter and her children. Thank God I'm on the way out and not
on the way in.
There is no way this will be widely publicized, unless each of us
sends it on!
This is your chance to make a difference.
" I'm 76 and I'm tired. If you don't forward this you
are part of the problem".
Thanks from all at www.amigomovil.net , www.youtube.com/user/amigomoviltx
Tuesday, January 24, 2012
10 things I will never say to My 3 M's !
I was
relaxing having a great non working weekend and then the 3M’s started in, minor intrusions at
first and then full force into my peaceful uneventful relaxing weekend[tinkering on the sailboat ]
The normal
daughter / Father stuff started :
From my 14yr
old “Yes we need to go to the mall[45 minutes away] , I need a new shirt for
school [she goes to a private school , she wears white oxford cloth button
shirts daily ,available here on the island for $12.99 each, why the mall ?]…and
the book store Barnes and Noble to buy a Harry Potter 2 video set with the commentary [so much for
private schooling , reading and that Christmas box set collection of HP books ]….and Starbucks for a Mocha Frappecino Carmel dark Grande latte iced [what happened to a
coke and fries from Macdonalds dollar menu???]…..oh and we need to stop at the
jewelers to get my ring cleaned and polished [Hmmm???Now I am really confused …what
ring? ]
From my 17yr
old “ Dad , we need some food ,we have
to go to the food store , we need some healthy food , salads , fruits , grains ,
whole nuts , juices “ [speaking while eating a double stuffed Oreo ] oh and we
need some shoes [ we need shoes????hmmmm wasn’t it just Christmas ?????shoes
already?????]Oh and I need some money [ of course] , I am going to study with
my friend at the local Coffee house [study at a coffe house???hmmm]for our end
of the semester finals……twenty should cover it ,wait no better make it 25 bucks
to be safe “[ pls remember I bring my lunch to the office and clip coupons for
2 for 1 dinners out , I am not cheap just a …….ok I am cheap!!!!]……oh yeah
&^%$##[I call him pimples with a pickup] will be there too! ....He is so nice
and sweet…..
From the
18yr old “Everyone is going to a party at &^%$#@ house , Can I go ? ……And would you
pick me up a bottle of Myers Rum? We are making rum and cokes …oh yeah while
your picking up the rum would you get some APPLE vodka drinks also ?????.....Oh
yeah Her parents are out of town …..but it is ok ....They don’t care if we drink at
their house…..Oh yeah there will be boys there …….and &^%$# will be there
,He got accepted into South Texas Dirtwater
University [ I called him “the nerd in mommy’s beamer”]and Music Yeah
Dad!! Duh!!!! ….we may go night swimming …….You know the house off the way
there ….on the water ….by the back bayou….Oh
I will probably spend the night …depends on how much we are drinking ……no
problem I can drive and drink …we have the fix in with the police on the island
……..
While
milling over everything in my mind I couldn’t help but review several things
I will never say:
10. Well, how 'bout that?... I'm lost! Looks like we'll have to
stop and ask for directions.
9. You know Pumpkin, now that you're older, you are ready for unchaperoned car dates!!!!! with no curfew!!! Have fun!!!!!
8. I noticed that your friends have a certain “up yours” attitude ... I like that …tell them to keep it up ,come over any time I enjoy being snubbed.
7. Here’s a charge card and the keys to my car – GO out to eat with your friends and GO CRAZY. It only money.!!!!!!!
6. You want to drop out of the STEM program and take easier classes –Sure sweetheart you don’t need science , stats or econ classes. Your inheritance with take care of you forever!!!!!
5. I am going sailing for the weekend ... you might want to consider throwing big beach party.... I will buy the drinks !!!!!!.
4. That big old oak tree ran into your car .I will call the city and have it cut down.The nerve of trees running into perfectly good cars driving on the road. Just have it towed to a mechanic and I will pay whatever he asks and take my car out and see if another Oak tree has the nerve to run into you!!!!
3. No daughter of mine is going to live under this roof without an earring in her navel–now quit your belly-aching, and go to the mall and get this done.
2. Whaddya wanna go and get a job for? I make plenty of money for you to spend.
1. Father’s Day? Aahh – don’t worry about that – it’s no big deal.
9. You know Pumpkin, now that you're older, you are ready for unchaperoned car dates!!!!! with no curfew!!! Have fun!!!!!
8. I noticed that your friends have a certain “up yours” attitude ... I like that …tell them to keep it up ,come over any time I enjoy being snubbed.
7. Here’s a charge card and the keys to my car – GO out to eat with your friends and GO CRAZY. It only money.!!!!!!!
6. You want to drop out of the STEM program and take easier classes –Sure sweetheart you don’t need science , stats or econ classes. Your inheritance with take care of you forever!!!!!
5. I am going sailing for the weekend ... you might want to consider throwing big beach party.... I will buy the drinks !!!!!!.
4. That big old oak tree ran into your car .I will call the city and have it cut down.The nerve of trees running into perfectly good cars driving on the road. Just have it towed to a mechanic and I will pay whatever he asks and take my car out and see if another Oak tree has the nerve to run into you!!!!
3. No daughter of mine is going to live under this roof without an earring in her navel–now quit your belly-aching, and go to the mall and get this done.
2. Whaddya wanna go and get a job for? I make plenty of money for you to spend.
1. Father’s Day? Aahh – don’t worry about that – it’s no big deal.
I posted this on our refrigerator for
all to see and comment , as I again pull this out of the trash can and repost
it on the refrig I cant help but think and smile ...all in all.... Life is good on my
island ,My daughters are just perfect and business is good at Amigo Movil .
Wednesday, January 18, 2012
The Art of Communication
The Art of Communication By Mike Nixon
Communication. It is the simplest of acts and yet one of the
most complicated tasks that I attempt each day.
From the day I was born, my first cry signified the desire to communicate
my wants and needs. Until my dying
breath, my goal is to connect, share and interact with those around me in
meaningful ways. Why, then, do I find it
so hard? Why is it the most challenging
job that I do each day? Why do I fail
regularly at the task in which I am so well versed and practised, yet so
seemingly incompetent?
In a word: skill. I am unskilled at using the tools required to
communicate with others well. When I
think of men like Reid Buckley (The
Buckley School of Public Speaking), whose command of and ability to
instruct others in the use of voice and the English language, I am awed. You see, as an “engineer”, the vernacular and
methodology of communication from my college education was to use a unique and
selective dialogue. It was preferred
that we use this “foreign” language that created a clique of those “in the
know”. Many in my profession lost sight
of the bigger picture and the common tools at our disposal. Ultimately, we forgot that we must
communicate in order to persuade and educate others.
However, I have come to appreciate in more
recent times that the tool of voice alone is often not enough. While great authors evoke emotion though
their use of language, an artist can do so in a glance. I have the great privilege of being
associated with Don Breeden who can
communicate the feel of South Texas with the stroke of his pen and the swipe of
his brush. The tools of his muse are
different than voice but no less effective when wielded with skill and
experience. By the way, he's pretty good
at turning a word as well.
Very recently, I have met another gentleman
and his team of expert communicators at MDG
Advertising. Again, adept at the written
word and art, Michael Del Gigante adds another tool to the toolbox. MDG combines these first two with the
electronic medium of the social network.
While using art and the written word along with “new media” is not that
unique, the excellence with which the first two are crafted is. Then, when
combined with the third, the result and message become truly amazing.
So why the rant about these methods of
getting a point across? As outlined at
the beginning, we all communicate in different ways and with different
methods. Some do it better than others
but we all want and need to communicate more effectively. While the author's typewriter, the artist's
pen and brush or the technologist's computer do not automatically create
excellence of content, the lack of those tools can certainly impede the
task. This idea was planted in me and
has been steadily growing. Some of the
most useful tools are those that facilitate not only sounds and words and
pictures but something new – emotion and understanding.
When I think of the myriad tools in the
market, I can't help but believe that we are on the forefront of a new era of
understanding. Tools in computer
software like Google and Facebook and Twitter allow us to connect in new and
convenient and interesting ways.
Hardware tools like the Ipad/Iphone and Android devices provide the
“pallet” on which to create our art. I
am excited about the direction we are headed.
I want to be a part of this movement as I commit to hone my skill and
upgrade my brush and pen. And, now, we
are going to contribute to those tools as well.
Tuesday, January 17, 2012
Monday, January 16, 2012
Friday, January 6, 2012
The Futures so bright , I gotta wear shades
The Future’s So Bright, I Gotta Wear Shades
To plagiarize the 80’s one-hit-wonder from Timbuk3, "things are going great - only gettin’ better". I am extremely excited about the direction of the Tekna ship. It is wonderful to be in a growing market at this time. While so many have so much challenge before them, we at Tekna have used this difficult economic time to hone our message and our offering. The current economic climate has given us reason to question our "status quo" and change those things that don’t measure up. One of the things that doesn’t measure up is our manufacturer-centric view of our products.
Recently a very good customer hit me with an astute (for me) observation. His comment was earth-shaking. He said, "I don’t want to buy your product (in this case, we were discussing shipping labels), I just want to get my boxes shipped." Now for most of you, this wouldn’t come as a surprise as you don’t care about shipping labels either. But, for me, I actually like shipping labels. When our press is printing these labels, it has the faint ring of the presses at the Federal Mint printing money (at least I like to think so). So when a very good client told me that didn’t like buying my product, it hit me hard.
I wanted to tuck my tail and run. But, I stayed a little longer and truly listened to my client. It is what he said next that changed my attitude and is changing my business. He said he loved using Tekna as his vendor for these products because it allows him to easily and efficiently do what he really wants done. He wants his packages to arrive at his client’s location so he can bill for his product. He wants the information on the label to be clear and clean, he wants the label to stick and he wants his system to flow without actually thinking about the label itself (or the label printer, for that matter).
So, we are gradually rethinking our CVP (Customer Value Proposition) from the perspective of the client’s job-to-be-done mentality. It truly is an epiphany. Not the religious kind but the sudden insight into the reality of a situation. My customers across all the aspects of Tekna’s products (flexible packaging, pressure sensitive labels, folding cartons, offset printing, etc.) have a job to do. They use Tekna’s products and services only as long as we provide an efficient and cost effective solution to that job.
This change in attitude is already showing new opportunities – not the least of which is Tekna Impact Printing Systems. TIPS allows us now to provide a complete (printer/software/ribbons/labels) system for something as mundane as shipping labels. Now the client has one solution for this function and one guaranteed to work. No finger pointing to various vendors to parts of the system. One call – one solution.
This job-to-be-done mentality will permeate our whole organization and I’m excited about the opportunities it will show us. Time for a new pair of Rayban’s. Life is good on my island , at Amigo Movil and www.tekna-impact.com
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